Then kitorang bincang pasal forgiveness. This one lagi susah nak practice... the exact concept of forgiveness is to forgive when you have the ability to punish the one who committed the mistake, especially when you are the victim, and you rights have been treated unjustly... then when you have the ability to take back your rights and punish this person, you just forgive him and just let him go... sound pretty easy, cuba la kena dulu baru tahu senang susah, rasa cam pikul peti ais naik puncak klcc senang lagi!
Allah says: "Nor can Goodness and Evil be equal. Repel (Evil) with what is better: then will he between whom and thee was hatred become as it were thy friend and intimate!" [Fussilat, 34]
Err... another important thing that must be considered in forgiving others is that the forgiveness must lead to benefits, if it lead to harm, then one must take his right, punish the wrongdoer and not to forgive. You can’t deny it... there are people that would not ‘makan saman’... if you forgive him, he will be bold and continue to do injustice... then, better not to forgive!